In my 30 years as a journalist, I’ve written a lot about victims. Many sorts of victims. Of war. Murder. Illness. Natural disasters. And man-made ones.
I always try to be sensitive and to highlight the incredible resiliency of human beings.
I was lucky enough to have won a Dart-Ochberg Fellowship from the Dart Center for Journalism and Trauma. I learned many things during that fellowship; how to improve my own reportage about people who have suffered.
All that really hit home last week when CNN published a story I reported from India about a woman who was raped four decades ago. You can read the story here: The Girl Whose Rape Changed a Country.
In the story, I revealed that I, too, had been raped when I was 18. I broke a 33-year silence. I wrote about some of the reaction to the story and how it made me feel in a follow-up. I was reporter and victim all at once.
I so appreciate the outpouring of support from women from around the world. It’s been a very difficult few days, reliving a memory from my past — one that I had put away in one corner of my mind. I tried to forget. But you can never really forget. The good thing is that it is possible to move on.
This post is to thank those who reached out to me. And for my dearest friends who took the time to make sure I was doing OK. Thank you.
I’m moving on to the next story. But I will not be afraid anymore to write about rape.
Evil Reporter Chick 
You’re awesome, Moni! Thank you for being brave enough to share your truth. 🙂
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Growth is painful, but necessarily so. Really proud of you for letting go of the hurtful impressions of your past.
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Moni, I admire your courage and thank you for doing the difficult thing and sharing this horror with the world. Take care, hope you are well and I love you – barrington
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You are amazing and so was your story. Your words will change the world.
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Moni, isn’t it amazing how some things are so horrible in our young lives that we just will ourselves to put them aside. And yet when the time was right, you faced this truth about yourself and used it to engage your reader in your common humanity. Brave warrior!
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You are remarkable in so many ways.
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